The moment you start to wonder if you deserve better! You really do!
Many people tolerate bad behaviors and stay in toxic situations, jobs and relationships because of fear!
Fear they are not enough or fear they can not get what they want!
But the reality is: You can't heal in the same environment where you got sick!
Many people need to break up their attachments to toxic environments and people.
"You are what you tolerate".
People will only treat you the way you invite and allow them to treat you.
If we have high standards, a high self esteem, we love & value ourselves, will never tolerate abuse, rudeness and being taken for granted.
We have to set healthy and loving boundaries for other people of how we want and expect to be treated.
"In business as in life you do not get what you deserve, you get only what you negotiate”.
When we are offered terms that does not meet what we want, we have to be able to walk away and mean it.
That means that we should walk away and never look back from everything and everyone who violate ourselves, our standards and our dignity!
"Lovely days don't come to you, you should walk to them".
Always go where you feel alive more~