In relationships, what women say they want & what they naturally respond to, are totally two different things.
And men who don't understand that think women are crazy, materialistic or never satisfied.
Therefore, they play games, give off mixed signals and hide their true intentions as they do not have the strength to be themselves. Many men change who they really are in the hope women will like them.
They become more sensitive, weak and unsure of themselves. They chase, plead and act like needy pleasers who are afraid to rock the boat.
Thinking this is what women want! Unfortunately, this leads to them losing their true identity by acting needy and afraid.
Polarity & attraction evaporates in any type of intimate relationship when partners do not behave congruently with their natural masculine or feminine essence.
Men want softness. Women want strength.
This is the reality.
"You can choose to ignore the reality but you can't ignore the consequences of ignoring reality"!
Never give up these traits:
First Stick to your values.
There is nothing worse than losing yourself doing something you do not want just to please others!
Never change who you really are to please anyone.
"You do not have to prove nothing to nobody"!
Second Focus on your mission.
Your mission is paramount. It comes before everything else & women are not your battle that you need to conquer!
A man who lives and speaks his truth without fear does not waste his precious time playing games or chasing butterflies.
Third Be in charge
No matter what is going in your life, never lose your optimism about future.
You are the source of strength and stability.
“A man can't be comfortable without his own approval.” – Mark Twain
Fourth Speak your truth
Never be intimidated by anyone or anything.
Don't waste your time pretending to be someone else in the hope to get something or to impress someone.
It will come up as weird and it will not flow naturally.
Speak your truth, do and say what you truly feel and let nature handle the rest~.
Fifth Be "a man who wears his soul on his face", he waits nobody and fearless about going after what he wants.
Dear men, do what’s necessary to get yourself into a peak state emotionally, mentally, physically and the right person will show up in the right way and time~.
"Never chase a butterfly, mend your garden and the butterfly will come".
"Be a man of value first; success will follow". Albert Einstein
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