Before helping others, we must work on helping ourselves first…
When I decided to rise from my wounds, I transformed my lifelong pain into beauty and power and transmitted this strength to others so that they could do the same.
Of all the things I have worked on and achieved, nothing has been more valuable than seeing people from around the globe reach out to me to help transform their lives and become the people they are meant to be.
Would I have been able to do that without investing in myself and working on my struggles? Tony Robbins says, “Every problem is a gift – without problems, we would not grow."
So, now I leave the answer to you.
My Early Years
I was born and raised by a humble family. This is where I learned to appreciate the little things that we almost all the time take for granted.
Within this culture, one of the greatest values, is to satisfy the will of his own parents. I belong to a generation who, without the proper guidance by the educational institutions, had no advice left for its future other than that of the parents.
When you’re still a child this guidance is mandatory and crucial, but when you grow up and have to make decisions by yourself, it becomes unhealthy.
When I graduated from college, I had no idea what major to choose. My father wanted for me a life better than what he could afford for himself and his family, so he guided me to engineering and because the era of technology started not so long ago, the decision was made around computer engineering.
My days at University
To fulfill the will of my father, I applied to the best engineering university in the Kingdom KFUPM. The university director rejected my application, Saying: “There are no available seats for you. We are full.”
I smiled and I told him it is my father’s dream to get into this university and I will!
He said, Well, “There is a college 500km away from here and if you pass the first year with a certain GPA, I will find you a seat.”
Deal! Challenge accepted.
I packed my stuff and went to win this challenge.
For me there was no other option.
A year later I took my grades to him and I took my seat!
Yes, I succeeded to enter the university, but the whole years of studying were a tremendous challenge for me, I had no interest in the major, I got my first computer in the 3rd year, and I couldn’t have any career guidance to be able to make a shift to some other major that better fits my personality and preferences.
So I graduated and went to look for work.
A Hard Career Path
After I graduated from university, I was lucky enough to get my first IT job within one the best technology companies of that time, Hewlett Packard.
My life started to shift, from a modest village to the capital, and to a higher social status. It didn’t go without challenge. Working for this company was interesting, but not satisfying. I didn’t like the job I was doing!
I fulfilled my father’s dream but couldn’t fulfill my own desire.
Due to this conflict, I wasn’t doing my best, wasn’t putting all the effort needed for the job, and I wasn’t committed as I should have been… this led me to be terminated from the company with no warnings.
I was left without a job, and without a salary, in the middle of the city and a lot of duties and bills to pay.
To turn this crisis into an opportunity, I started a small construction company and officially entered the business world. I will not let you guessing for long…
I didn’t find myself there neither, but I couldn’t remain jobless.
My Existential Crisis
Nothing felt right!
After building my first company, and understood more what it means to invest… I decided I had to go back to working in computer engineering, after all it was a big investment in my time and money.
Back then, I had 2 occupations, but ZERO fulfillment.
To add to my pain, I was emotionally struggling in my relationships.
All this led me to isolate myself from the world for a while, and resort to reading about humans’ lives, human science, and religions… I wanted to know more about humans, behavior, minds, thoughts, emotions, drives…
I wanted to change my perspective about life.
Reading, watching and listening for life coaches and relationship coaches became my full-time hobby. They were the only people who got me out of my pain and helped me transform it into a sustainable and guided power.
If I kept fighting alone, I would still be suffering from my struggles, but I was lucky I to choose with whom to fight so I can win the battles.
I became a life & relationship coach myself, with the greatest passion to help people discover the beauty of their pain, and transform it into something they could be proud of.
I had a very humble beginning in the field, but my full-hearted dedication, reached thousands of people, and took me on an international coaching journey with the best coaches, companies and universities.
After discovering myself differently, I was living in an unprecedented peace and fulfillment… I wanted to help as many people as I could reach this state of mind.
So if you want to improve your relationship with yourself, your life partner, your colleagues, or if you have a team or a company and want to boost the productivity of your employees, you have landed in the place.
If I kept fighting alone, I would still be suffering from my struggles, but I was lucky to choose with whom to fight so that I could win the battles.
I went after this interest and became a life and relationship coach myself.
I have an immense passion to help people discover the beauty of their pain, and transform it into something they could be proud of.
I began with a very humble beginning in the field, but my full-hearted dedication reached thousands of people and took me on an international coaching journey with the best coaches, companies and universities.
After discovering myself by allowing myself to be authentic, I was experiencing unprecedented peace and fulfillment. It became my mission to help as many people as I could to reach this state of mind.
If you want to improve the relationship with yourself, or with your life partner, colleagues, or if you have a team or a company and want to boost the productivity of your employees, you have landed in the right place.