When you are confused, it means you are about to learn something!
My cat fall in love recently with the beautiful lady cat living in the neighborhood but it is clear he is not ready to settle down!
He woke me up early morning to have "The Talk"!
I sat with him asking: What's up buddy?
He told me he is not ready & he does not want to waste her time.
He wants to work on himself but he is worried losing her forever if he tells the truth!
I replied: "Admitting your weakness does not diminish your strength; it shows your courage"~.
Never apologize for being real.
Most people pressure themselves into something, deep down they are not ready for or do not want.
Because they are driven by their fears.
Nothing makes you more vulnerable than your refusal to be who you really are!
Do not worry about what others might think you should do!
What suits you might not suit others as everyone has his\her own journey and path~.
"If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they are yours, if not they never were"!
Love does not claim possession! It gives freedom.
Always be honest & do what feels right for you~.
Whenever you are confused, “Let the waters settle and you will see the moon and the stars mirrored in your own being.” Rumi
Don't you agree?