"What happened, happened & could not have happened any other way"!

Whether you know the reason or not.

Nothing happens by chance even if it sounds dramatic!

Sometimes life doesn't make sense & the universe is under no obligation to explain.

But! "What happened, happened & could not have happened any other way"!

Many people struggle to accept this fact therefore they suffer.

Yes breakups, losing jobs etc.. often feel like the end, because our identity is totally wrapped up in what we have lost.

The fear of closing one chapter of our life & moving on is always going to conflict with our need for certainty.

It is a human need! We want to be certain about everything to avoid pain and stay in peace.

But the moment we realize that we might be grieving for something but not everything we lost is a loss.

Maybe it is a wake up call.

Sometimes we choose to change but often times life forces us to do so!

Our ability to remain positive is in direct proportion to our ability in assigning positive meanings to the events of our life.

Ask yourself good quality questions and look for the answers inside them.

"An entire sea of water can’t sink a ship unless it gets inside the ship. Similarly, the negativity of the world can’t put you down unless you allow it to get inside you.” – Goi Nasu

There is always a message behind your pain or loss. The moment you hear it, the pain will go.

Accept your mistakes as gifts that get you on the path meant for you.

"Don't grieve. Anything you lose comes round in another form". Rumi

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