My rooster fall in love recently with the beautiful chicken living in the neighborhood but it is clear he is not ready to settle down! He woke me up early morning to have "The Talk"!
I sat with him asking: What's up buddy?
He told me he is not ready & he does not want to waste her time.
He wants to work on himself but he is worried losing her forever if he tells the truth!
I replied: "Admitting your weakness does not diminish your strength; it shows your courage"~
Nothing makes you more vulnerable than your refusal to be honest with yourself! Never apologize for being real.
Most people pressure themselves into something, deep down they are not ready for or do not want.
Because they are driven by their fears and tend to do more to avoid pain than they are willing to get what they really want.
Do not worry about what others might think you should do! What suits you might not suit others as everyone has his\her own journey and path~
"If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they are yours, if not they never were"!
Love does not claim possession! It gives freedom.~
Always be honest & do what feels right for you~